The Barn at Bay Horse Inn is on a beautiful estate. There will be shuttle services running from the selected hotels before the ceremony and at the end of the reception. However it is an easy Uber ride if you'd like to ride on your own, and there is ample parking available.
On top of a killer dance hall, the Barn is attached to the coolest saloon I've been to. Specialty cocktails, great beer and wine, it'll be a blast. We're not saying you need to wear boots, but you would probably fit right in.